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Anal sex

It’s wonderful to give a fuck. It’s fucking heavenly. To fuck someone or to be fucked in the ass is a versatile pleasure. It’s a gift that just keeps on giving! The best thing about it is that your mode of pleasure is versatile. You can fuck gently, inhaling the intoxicating scent of romance. You can also fuck rough and wild. You can fuck like strangers. You can fuck like animals. Whichever your pleasure may be that day make sure that you make sure that the receiving ass is ready for the adventure that is about to begin. No, it is not nice of you to just jam your cock or a dildo up somebody’s ass. That’s not fun. Here’s a suggestion on how to get a lovely ass into the mood for some play. Remember- start gently! Whether you are using your fingers, tongue or a butt plug just be soft and polite. You can get rougher later. Here’s how it works down there. The sphincter is the outer ring muscle down there. It’s pretty impossible to control and it tightens up when something is pushed into the anus (the ass). Gently push a finger against the hole until you feel the muscle loosening up. Relaaaaax…Enjoy. Good. Now let’s talk about lubrication. The ass has no natural lubrication of its own so a water or silicone-based lubricant should get things flowing, so to speak. Good communication with your sex partner is important. No, you don’t have to debate Gaga versus Madonna and no you […]

 

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Blow jobs

Sucking cock, blow jobs, giving head, going down, oral sex- whichever term you know it by, it’s a great act. And like many great things, everybody has their individual styles and preferences for both giving and receiving. It’s hard to say what makes the best blowjob, you’ll just have to suck and see. Here you can find tips on how to make a blowjob both even more luscious and safer too. Make it better Listen to the person you’re blowing; moans and heavy breathing are generally good indicators of how the person on the receiving end is feeling. This also applies if you’re the one getting the blowjob, unless you’re simply lying back and enjoying getting cock-worshipped. Want to crank up the heat a bit and pleasure the person giving you head? You could play with their nipples? Caress them? Or grab the back of their neck and give them a hard mouth-fuck? One tip when sucking cock is to vary things a bit. Try different speeds, and taking in different lengths of the cock. Change up your speeds too- sometimes using a hard, pointed tongue, and then alternate with soft lips. Try grasping the testicle (balls) sack firmly but carefully ,and pulling gently down and backward while sucking or licking. Don’t forget that the ball-sack is often a sensitive part of the body, just like the area between the scrotum and asshole. The gagging reflex is a curse for many people. Not everybody is Deep Throat -that film was fictional. Gagging could be due […]

 

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Cunnilingus

Many transgendered men have pussies so we thought we ought to include how to eat one. Some transgendered men have a particular preferred term for this sweet spot, perhaps “pussy” isn’t it. When in doubt what to call it, ask the person politely. How you like to lick or be licked is very personal. You’ve got another set of lips down there. But these can’t talk. That’s why it’s not easy to give tips on the best way to eat pussy. Go for it, have fun, and see what feels best. One tip is to listen to the person on the receiving end. Is the person moaning? Breathing heavy? Indicating ‘stop’ or ‘keep going!’ with body language? These are the signs of satisfaction (or dissatisfaction) of your tongue gymnastics. It’s the same if you’re the one being licked. There are various ways you can show the person eating you out what pleases you. Maybe there is something you can do to make things extra yummy for the person licking you…? Stroking, or caressing the neck of your licker are some nice things to show appreciation for their effort. It can be nice when someone gets down to business immediately and starts licking or rubbing the pussy straight away. Alternatively, you could tease the person on the receiving end and make them yearn, beg and moan for your tongue to reach their clit. Stroke, taste and lick their entire body. If the person you’re with enjoys it you can even use your teeth and sexily nip […]

 

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BDSM

A lot of sex play that you fantasize about might not fit neatly within the confines of the basic sex education that you were taught at school. BDSM might very well be one of those things. What’s that, you ask? Well, BDSM is an acronym for Bondage (B) Bondage & Discipline (B&D) Domination & Submission (D&S) Sadism & Masochism (or Sadomasochism) (S&M, SM) BDSM is a quite a broad term, but it comes down to consenting adults who enjoy expressing their sexuality through the practices of bondage, discipline, domination, submission, sadism, masochism and/or sadomasochism. It may sound rough, but trust, consideration and mutual respect are the cornerstones of the BDSM community. Remember, BDSM can be pretty hardcore, or a soft act of love. The different parts of BDSM can be mixed, switched depending on mood, partner and context. BDSM is often associated with fetishism, an example would be the leather scene. In various sexual subcultures BDSM plays an important role. It is absolutely possible to have a hot BDSM experience whilst having safer sex. Here we will talk about a few aspects of BDSM and how you can have safer and hotter BDSM sex. BDSM is often associated with fetishism (such as leather for example) or certain types of sex. BDSM is also an important part of certain subcultures, where perhaps the leather culture is the best known. Here we briefly cover a few aspects of BDSM and how you can have better and safer BDSM sex. Tie me up tie me down! Tying somebody […]

 

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Fetishism

Get off on sneakers, raw silk or the smell of leather? Are redheads with moustaches what does it for you? Do sexy reading glasses put the ‘lead in your pencil’ so to speak? Fetishism is about the ability to experience arousal from one or more specific materials, clothes, body parts or something else that’s not  usually associated with something sexual. This could be a material such as, say, leather, tweed or lycra. It could be clothing such as uniforms or sports outfits. Or body parts such as feet, armpits or shaved heads. For some people the fetish could be something completely different, such as a particular color or shape, or even a particular action or situation. The perception of a fetish varies from one person to the next. Some people enjoy their fetish privately, while others prefer to share it, or have it shared with them, together with others. A fetish can be indulged on individual occasions, such as in connection with sex, or it can be something that adds a bit of extra spice to everyday life. Guess what? Some of your colleagues might go to work in a jockstrap or G-string? Indulging in a fetish itself carries no risk of transmitting HIV or other STIs. Well, unless you fetishize getting cum in your ass, mouth or pussy. Getting somebody else’s semen inside your body is always a risk.

 

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Fisting ass

  Hosting a hand inside your ass can be quite an extraordinary experience. Some people find delight in working their way up far further than just the hand, while others get off on the sensation of stretching and density. Fisting can be porn star brutal but also loving and caring. Safe, pleasurable fisting is possible with a calmness, responsibility and awareness both in the person(s) giving and receiving. Fisting often gets more enjoyable with experience.   There are some thinks you can do to prepare the way… since the fist might go deeper then the cock, most people like to do more then to take a dump. You can prepare by eating soup the day before. Fibers are good and do avoid white bread and similar food. A tasty spicy dish is also not recommended… Some people prefere to take an enema pill before, other like to douche thoroughly like an hour before. Afterwards one might need to massage the belly in order to get rid of the excess water that otherwise might come out during the fisting session. During a fist fuck, it is really really important to be conscious of both your own body and the other person(s) body/bodies and boundaries. This makes for a respectful start. Take the time to relax together and let the body gradually adjust to accommodate bigger and bigger things. Everybody’s body is different. Some people can take in nearly an entire hand on the first try, while others will have to try a few times over a […]

 

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Fisting pussy

Some guys have dicks. Some guys have pussies (although trans men might call their sweet spot by another name). A hand up the pussy can be a fulfilling pleasure, literally. Apart from the lovely sensation of a hand sliding up there , a hand can do wonders in terms of pressure and movement along the walls of the vagina. Safe, pleasurable fisting is enjoyed responsibly, with mutual awareness and respect of both the giver and the receiver. Fisting often gets better and even more enjoyable with experience. Whether you are the one doing the fisting or receiving it, it’s incredibly important to be aware of both your own and the other person’s body. Respect your own boundaries and respect those of your partner(s). Pay attention  to the sounds the other person is making. Listen to their words, their moans, their sounds, breath and body language. Give yourself enough time for sex, to relax, to see what turns you on. Get the pussy accustomed to taking in bigger and bigger things. Some people can comfortably get a whole hand up on the first try, while others will have to take ease into it and be patient. A bit of tongue action and then some fingering are great ways to prime a pussy. You can start with one finger and gradually insert more, and maybe even fuck with a cock or a dildo. Remember to stimulate the clit from the outside as well to make it nicer before, during and after the fisting. Try to make your […]

 

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Kinky play

  Catheters/urethra games You might know this part of the cock as the ‘glans’ or ‘helmet’. It’s located at the opening of the urethra and it is highly sensitive to touch, especially the area towards the underside of the cock by the rim of the penis head. A catheter is a thin tube that can be fed into the urethra, for example, to give a sensation of being kinkily injected, or, filled in a slightly different way. It’s important to note that the mucous membrane in the urethra is extremely thin and sensitive to injury. If injury does occur, the result could be an infection that’s very painful and hard to treat. So be very careful with catheter sex, and carefully consider what you want to put into your urethra. Use sterile catheters and plenty of sterile lube. Make sure you have a proper stopper at the end of whatever you’re putting in your urethra in order to make sure it doesn’t disappear up inside your body and get stuck there. The risk of minor injuries and bleeding with this type of play is a bit higher, so it’s extra important to use a condom if you want to fuck or get a blowjob after catheter sex. Your urine may also contain blood after catheter sex, although it may not be visible to the naked eye. Spit and snot Swapping spit and snot during a hot makeout session can be wonderful. And the great thing is, neither saliva nor snot carry any risk of transmitting […]

 

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Rimming

The ass is a nerve center for all kinds of pleasure. Rimming is exploring the anus with the tongue or mouth, or running the tongue between the butt cheeks. The slang for this is known as ‘tossing the salad’. It can be done lightly, teasingly and playfully, or be given as a deep tongue-fuck, holding the cheeks apart for better access. It doesn’t even have to involve bodily contact: Try spitting and blowing gently, it can lead to unimagined pleasure. The great thing about rimming is the dual-pleasure of it. You can lick ass to show your submission, how grateful you are to serve your master, but it’s also a way of softening up the person you’re about to screw. Regardless of how and why you do it, enjoy it.   Lick first, fuck second is a good general rule, as anal penetration can produce tiny wounds in the anal fissure. Licking and being licked before fucking is a great way of having safer sex, as it entails only a minor risk of passing on HIV. Washing around the anus with soap and water before rimming also reduces the risk of transmitting intestinal bacteria. Having said that, don’t let hygiene set your rules. Think about what’s important for you, what turns you on. Is a clean body the same thing as a body that smells of soap, or is the body’s natural smell what really turns you on?

 

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Toys

Apart from our bodies, there are all kinds of tools and toys we can use when we have sex. We know that even thousands of years ago, people used dildos made of wood and animal antlers. Nowadays there are far more products we can use to give ourselves and otherspleasure. Feel your way through the selection and see which toys are best for you and the people you have sex with – you can have a lot of fun along the way! Dildos, dongs and butt plugs Some dildos are designed to look like cocks while others look completely different. If you scour the market you can find toys in every color of the rainbow. Dildos are made in a wide variety of materials, which also affect how hard or soft they are and how they smell. A dong is often shaped like a cock and is made entirely of a slightly softer material (such as silicon) without a vibrator. Where are you the most sensitive? Find a toy that brings the most pleasure to your body. Some dildos are specially shaped or curved so that they reach the most sensitive parts. Many dildos have an built-in vibrator function for extra added pleasure. Did you know that there is a male G-spot? Many men’s prostates (accessed anally) have the male G-spot, known as the P-spot. A dildo can help stimulate the prostate via the ass, and wham you’ve hit the P-spot!  The P-spot can be highly sensitive to sexual contact and can give intense orgasms. […]

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